A New Chapter in Miami: Home, Health, and Heartfelt Friendships
I have some exciting news to share—James and I are officially staying in Miami!
What began as a temporary move turned into something much more permanent than we could’ve imagined. We originally thought we’d be here for just a few months while preparing for a move to NYC. But then, out of the blue, a dream job opportunity came up for James here. He got the offer the very next day, and everything started unfolding in the most seamless, serendipitous way.
We found our new condo within hours of it being listed—and it just so happens to be five floors below the one my dad used to own, the very place I spent so many childhood visits. It felt like coming full circle.
Moments like this have reminded me of a deeper truth: when you’re on the right path, things click. They move with ease. The vision you’ve been holding in your heart might not come to life when or how you expect—but if you stay aligned, it will come. The dreams you have for your life aren’t random. They’re often divine invitations—nudges from God that guide you toward the person you’re meant to become.
So if you’ve been waiting, hoping, or wondering if it’s ever going to happen for you—don’t lose heart. Stay connected to your vision. Keep showing up. Keep taking aligned action. The timing may not be in your hands, but the promise is still real.
What I’m Focused On Right Now
As we settle into this new season, I’m feeling a beautiful sense of grounding. I’m currently in the process of furnishing our new condo from scratch—ordering new pieces, coordinating the move of a few things I still have in LA, and slowly turning an empty space into a warm, elegant home that feels like us.
There’s something sacred about creating a home. It’s more than just design—it’s energy, intention, and alignment. I’m curating a space where we can truly thrive, and where I can feel supported in all the ways I’m growing.
Right now, I’m also prioritizing my health and fitness, aiming to be in the best shape of my life. Not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too. I’m in a season of becoming stronger, clearer, and more connected to myself—and it feels so good.
And lastly, I’ve been focusing on building community here in Miami. Which brings me to something I’ve been reflecting on a lot lately: how to make friends as an adult.
Making Meaningful Friendships as an Adult
Making friends as an adult is wildly different than it was when we were younger. It’s not about proximity anymore—it’s not just who we sit next to in class or share a hobby with. It’s about alignment. Intention. Discernment.
And honestly? I think that’s what makes adult friendships so powerful.
We now have the ability to choose who we want to share our time and energy with. We get to decide what kind of relationships we value, what qualities matter to us, and who we want to let into our inner circle.
For me, I value friendships that are low-maintenance but high-quality. I love surrounding myself with intelligent, kind, positive, and genuine people—those who inspire me, challenge me, and see me for who I truly am. I value depth over small talk. I appreciate people who are healthy in mind, body, and spirit. I’m not a big partier, so I naturally gravitate toward people who also value a slower, more intentional lifestyle.
And while I love connecting with like-minded people, I also believe in the beauty of differences. I don’t need everyone around me to be the same—I actually think it’s important to have friends who stretch you, who bring different perspectives, and who help you grow in unexpected ways.
If you’re in a season where your circle is shifting—or you’re in between communities—remember that solitude can be an opportunity. A sacred one. It’s a time to get clear on who you are, what you value, and the kind of relationships you want to attract. It’s a time to become your own best friend, to nourish your soul, and to prepare yourself for the people who are meant to find you.
And always remember: you attract what you are. So if you want uplifting, deep, soulful friendships—become that person. Radiate the kind of energy you want to receive. That alignment is magnetic.
Practical Tips for Making Friends as an Adult
If you’re trying to build new friendships in your adult life—whether you’ve just moved or are simply evolving—here are a few things that have helped me:
Be a regular somewhere. Whether it’s your Pilates studio, a coffee shop, or your Saturday farmer’s market—familiarity breeds connection. You’re more likely to have organic conversations when you keep showing up in the same places.
Don’t be afraid to initiate. If you meet someone cool, ask them to grab coffee or go to a workout class together. Most people are open to making new friends—they’re just waiting for someone to make the first move.
Remember that friendships take time. Deep, meaningful connections don’t happen overnight. Give things space to develop naturally and don’t get discouraged if it takes a while to find “your people.”
The more you align with your true self, the easier it becomes to attract the kind of people who feel like home.
This season feels like a fresh start in the best way. A new city, a new home, a new sense of purpose. And I’m just getting started.
Thank you for being here, and for allowing me to share this journey with you. I’ll be sharing more soon—especially as the condo starts to come together, and as I continue to root more deeply here in Miami.
If you’re in your own season of transition or becoming, I hope this reminded you that you're not alone—and that the life you're dreaming of is closer than you think.
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